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أرافيل:كل شئ عن الفلبين والعرب فى الفلبين - Why my Filipina Honey wants me ?


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  • Why my Filipina Honey wants me ?

    This is the question that made my brain sinning for a long time!

    Why does a young pretty girl like her want to spend the rest of her life with a man like me? She is in here twenties . late twenties , I passed the sixty years limit , in the spring of life as they say! I'm in my sixties , but I have friends in their seventies and having a pretty girl longing for them. I have also some friend s who are overweight , diabetes or hypertension or more worse diseases , and their girl friend or wife is so pretty , very healthy and very attractive.

    There are many reasons why a Filipina want to catch and marry a forefinger: Financial reasons make take the first place, but not the only nor the most important. Other reasons; their longing of having children that have the father look , the dream to move and settle in a better living country, or the true love that ties her with a foreigner accidentally with any plan.

    All foreigners are Amercanos!

    Financial status is a very strong explanation why Filipina women like to be connected and marry foreigners like me. Foreigners are rich in the eyes of filipina girls even they are not. As a foreigner, at least you can afford travel to Philippines while their Barangay Filipino men cannot afford to travel to Manila. You can live in an hotel , while they cannot afford to get a bed space in a poor pension house! So I'm rich , no matter of the truth , this is how Filipina girl look at me.. Also I'm American like any foreigner, while I never been in America. She knows that I'm really African from a poor country with most of the population live below poverty line.

    There some facts here , we must consider that foreigners have earning capacity higher than Filipino men, a foreigner can earn double or more than an average Filipino. Most of thos coming to Philippines , take the burden of living in a different country and mix with a different culture, are mor energetic and smarter than those prefer to settle at their home countries. A foreigner being in Philippines carries with him the essence of adventure, strength, braveness and other attractive manly characters.

    This Amercano image for any foreigner is fixed deep in the mind of filipino, cannot be changed. They consider a foreigner a rich man , even if he is roaming stranger without a shelter in the streets of Manila. A foreigner is treated very respectably like any high class Filipino. Philippines is a class conscious society, a low class filipina woman cannot reach a high class rich Filipino man, but she can reach any foreigner and catch his heart, be his girl friend or even his wife.

    Filipino man vs foreigner

    When I look around me, to the staff working for me, or to those applicants applying to work abroad, or to people i meet any where; in the bank, in the mall, I see a typically repeated story for more than 50% for girls. A single parent !
    Most of Filipina girl, those from poor or middle class families, would get pregnant by their boy friends when while is around 16 to 20 years old. The relation would end, the man would disappear in no where. The status becomes "single parent". Most of the women shoulder their child need alone after the father disappears, with the help of the grandparents who would register the children as theirs in government records. The child looks at his mother as his older sister rather than a mother.

    What all those left as single parents will do the rest of their life? a foreigner is the answer! They look for a foreigner, boyfriend or husband if possible. They would never end to nothing like with their X-filipino man, either end into making a family which is the filipino girl dream, or some financial stability as a girl friend. Many Filipino woman are running businesses just because they were girl friend of a foreigner one day. I know many woman, she started her life as domestic helper in Gulf countries, and now has her own recruitment agencies in the Philippines.

    Don't become and ATM machines

    I met so many Filipina girls in Philippines and in other countries where I had been working before. There are people who are lucky in money, I'm not one of them sure. Maybe I'm lucky in many things, money is not one of them. So, I'm very careful to the extent that , I reject any girl asking money from me from the very first start. Even I block the way to do that. I have a common say, that I say it repeatedly to any new girl in my life, no matter why she was introduced tom , or why she came to me. I tell anyone , simply I can help you earn money by teaching you how, but I cannot give any money. "why?" A question in the eye, I answer:" because I don't have money to give, but i have many other things that can help you make money" .. Next time, she wouldn't come if she was intending to make me her ATM machine, because the machine is obviously empty.

    Don't be shy , and don't let her know the way for her hands into your pockets, you wouldn't be able to get her out again. She will stop findinding ways to get money to flow from your pocket into hers. It may end you in you tube crying telling your stories for every one , like a crazy old Australian , almost crying in his video why telling how he loved a girl that deceived him and ran away after she had exhausted him financially.